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Forever wondering, so why not share my thoughts with the world? I believe everything happens for a reason even though we may not know what it is. I believe it's fate. It's kismat. xox
Showing posts with label achieve. Show all posts
Showing posts with label achieve. Show all posts

Tuesday, 15 January 2013

Drink. Think. Do.

Day dreamer. That's me. Forever wondering. Forever attempting to solve the complex intricacies of life.
Sometimes I like to think of it as being a superhero, (preferably Catwoman, because she FIESTYYY! Oh and I like pretending to be a cat,) figuring out where we go wrong, how we can make it right. You know, trying to make the world a better place for us to live in an' all?

The wonderer.

'OI you! Stop zonking out all the time!'

If I got a piece of choccy for every time someone said that to me. I'd be mega obese.

I'd have a mate talking to me and i'd just zone out, thinking about something that happened that day, or something that could happen or whatever. (Or maybe I have boring friends? - Guys if you're reading this I'm messing and you know I have lotsa lovin' for you xox)

And then it hit me. BAM. It hit me in the face, just like an angry sister who found out her phone had been dropped and smashed... Erm yeah, it was an accident.

We may think about various things and aspects in our life, but do we actually DO?

The things that have gone wrong for us, do we sit there and dwell or do we attempt to actually CHANGE?

I don't just wonder, but I dream. I imagine my future, what I want, where I want to be. At first I'd think about the impossible. Nahhhh I'd never be able to achieve that. I'd never be able to get that job. But in essence, nothing is impossible if you believe so. If you limit yourself you won't achieve anything beyond that. DREAM BIG. Go beyond what you think you can do. There's no harm in it. Picture yourself in the position you want to be. Sometimes when you see that others have what you wish for, it helps. It makes you get off your a*se and grab that opportunity to make your dream, your reality.



Being idle will get you nowhere. 

You have to get out there and start somewhere, anywhere. The notion of making a move, even if its an inkling means you're putting a step in the right direction. You've got to try and try and try. Remember it will take time, maybe a lot of it, yet with perseverance you'll get there hopefully. It's better than wasting time and sitting in front of the telly watching re-runs of Come Dine with me, right?

Anyway this is just something that popped into my head while attempting to write my essay. Got the thought and name of this post from the back of a Lucuzade bottle. Ahh good ol' Lukey, didn't give me energy but gave me something to write!

Now I have S-Club 7's: Reach for the stars in my head! Damn. Better get back to assignmenting now.

Always try your best and if you don't get there, try again. And if you STILL don't get there. Remember there's a good reason for it. It's Kismat xxoxx




Thursday, 3 May 2012

Searching for Success!

Before we begin our never ending chase for 'success', we have to think about what it actually is. I feel that this term is applicable to everyone and anyone, yet it's meaning is different to each individual.

Personally for me, it currently means:

  • Actually passing my uni exams.
  • Graduating. 
  • Learning how to drive. 
  • Getting a well-paid, good job.
Basically different goals to achieve.

However, after much deliberation and thought (and believe me my mind does not shut up) I realised  that success really comes down to happiness.

All the things I listed above, I could hopefully achieve. But after gaining all these things, can I really label myself as 'successful'? I could graduate for example, yet maybe it was a course I was not keen on. I could learn to drive, but what would be the point if I was to never get a car? I could get the highest paying job, yet HATE what I do. Does that really make me successful? I don't think it does.

Many feel that it lies with money, the more money you have the better your life will be. That's a load of crap. Yeah money buys you things, lots of things you want and makes you happy...but only temporarily.

At the end of the day, the more we gain pleasure in what we do and the more happiness we attain, the more we begin to prosper in life - we begin to truly enjoy it and that's the key.



Now the key to achieving happiness...many of us are still trying to figure out that answer...